Idiot men and what they need to know...

Well, at least you try. It is really bad when after you knee him, and he immediately says "I wasnt staring at her!" And you give him that "you are such a terrible liar!" look, and then look over you shoulder to the area of the restaurant he cant take his eyes off, and say "what about that?" Then he completely stops looking that way for a total of 30 minutes, until he thinks you arent watching him again. Its even worse when his friend that is with him made a valiant effort to save him earlier in the night by saying "She is TOO blond, and she really isnt that hot. I like brain cells" in order to get him to see that he is really only stalking her visually, with his woman sitting right there, pissed because he is so busy staring at the idiot waitress to even hear the conversation his wife and friend are trying to have with him.

Men are dumb. They need to be slapped at least 4 times a day.

Thats really not surprising. All men are into extreme violence. It says so in that seed about men- 7 reasons, lol.

Just do yourself a flavor. Go get a piece of leather and walk around smacking yourself, you'll feel better.

LOL! Thanks! Now, we just need the beast to pay attention. He actually said "I wasnt looking at her, I was looking over at those people!" The ones she was serving.

I appreciate a male that realizes these things, te-he!

Yeah, well, it would be different if our scenario was like that, but its not, lol. I wouldnt bring a chic aroud him because of the obvious issues he has with self control. Thats not to say that I wouldnt tell him if I thought a chic was hot, I tried, he over does it to the highest extent. "Would you tap that, babe?" No, I would not tap that. She aint even hot, and she looks like a bitch. And she has no ass at all syndrome.

Yeah but men should be men, lol.

But they become big boys when they have a bigger... Brain :P

Now it all makes sense....

Thats what I was thinking, lol.

Who said that was snippy? I thought it was... Honest.

Your right! I do have alot of appliances around me. Right now I am looking at an electric knife.

No, but everyone likes a good suck up...

Um Idiots, Im behind you...

:}

ROFLMAO! I cant stop laughing enough to think...

You can live without a ear and a hand, I promise :}

Now, if only I had A1.

Do you wash under your nails EVER?!

Oh. Is that where these scratches keep coming from?

Alright! GEEZ! You sure are no fun today. HMPH. :{

Who said they were all toys?

And who said I wasnt as zombie?

Well, it does have the element of surprise to it...

Do you need some peroxide?

Its stuck to the table over there...

Thanks, maddad! I try to help. Just dont piss off the woman and all will be well...

As I sit here typing, I have had to slap the beast 4 times. Idiot.

Oh, I know that women do it too (I dont. I hate that feeling when someone does it to me, so I purposefully divert my attention. Well, I dont think I am gonna do that anymore, actually), and its not even the looking that gets me. Its the stalking them everywhere they go, all the while ignoring those he wanted to take to dinner. And the "ask her for this, ask her for that." I made him talk to his little crush himself after that. "Do it yourself, you obviously have a major crush on her. Who knows, maybe you will hook up with her, eh?"

I have no problem with a look, and glance, and even an obvious "wow. Hot!" that comes and goes as fast as it came. I just have a problem with my husband making a porno with ugly waitresses in his head, which is exactly what he was doing. And he has always made it a thing to very obviously rub it in. He has gotten better, though not over it by any means. "What up, momma" to a not so hot chick when I was pregnant with our first almost left him wifeless and childless, lol.

Thank you, and I appreciate that. I didnt think he would either, but after the last time we went out, I have been watching him more, so I am willing to bet I just hadnt noticed yet.

I told my dad about it today. I figure he will just give him a "hint" on how not to act.

The food wasnt that great, though to talk to him it was the beast steak he ever had. I told him to go choke on a tube steak and save me the time next time.

I think I may just take a menu into the bathroom and do it myself, thanks, lol.

He knows he screwed up. I came home and threw a drunken fit by myself, playing hate my lover music, very loudly, and making sure it wasnt stopping any time soon. He kept trying to suck up, wasnt having any of it. I knew when we were sitting at the restaurant after I nailed him I was gonna make it as hard on him as possible. And I have, with my snotty remarks every time he mentions anything about anything I can use. And it wont stop until he admits it and appologizes. He thinks its gonna blow over in a few. NOPE.

LOL. I think Im gonna go look that song up. And send it to him. I just got him again. I told him I wrote an angry man hating article, and everyone thinks its good. He said, and this just proves his idiocracy, "Why did you write an angry man hating article?" Duh! "Because you pissed me off Saturday night."

"I love you." Like that doesnt scream "guilty and she knows it".

"I love you too, dont ever do that again, BTW, or you will be going home alone."

"Quit. I love you."

"I love you too, but I am dead serious. I'll leave it at that, but do not EVER forget that."

No answer, that was 20 minutes ago.

LOL. No, I didnt let that part out, but now that you mention it, I think I might. That would probably rile him up even more. I made him read about 3 of your seeds yesterday. I kept saying "you are scientifically incapable of being a decent human, arent you?" or "Men really ARE dogs." And the best "See, you may be undressing her with your eyes, but the odds are definately not in your favor that she shares those feelings." It really got him when the waitress looked at what I had put down (food and beer wise, plus 3 jager bombs, I was on a mission), and said "where did you put that? You are so teeny!" Answer: "Thanks, but I'll burn through it when I get home, and start chasing our 4 kids. Our BABY is 18 mos. old." Glaring highly at him the whole time. I know I just mixed 2 stories, but I love a great come back.

He has severe ADHD and OCD. Plus a huge case of Arrogant Ass. His mom didnt teach him manners, and his father wasnt around alot to kick his ass and a make him a nice person. Now, he still doesnt admit it alot, but he is starting to see that somethings your parents forgot to teach you are very much needed in order to keep you alive. Time to relearn them. Manners is the top of that list. Dont piss off the woman that cooks your food.

Yeah, I know, just for him to not be able to control it enough to get through dinner lately is getting me into damn irrational state. I cant figure out why it is so hard to just be decent. Not be a total dog, and not allow himself to think that I dont notice it. Its wrong that he thinks that he can do this, all the while making it out like he is the epitomy of self control. What a joke.

I guess apparently I have offended some, but at this point, I am not NOT going to defend myself or my actions. I think I couldn't have handled it any better, I didnt kill him, I didnt maim him, I didnt fight with the person that was the object of the visual stalking. LOL.

Kink, I just saw this, sorry!

I think I may just use Queenies whiffle ball bat. LOL.

No, actually, since this last week, and me freaking on him, he has been really good, and hasnt even looked at the internet on his phone (which I called him on, but you know that story). I told him I know what hes doing (even though I really can only guess, but its an educated one), and it just really bugs me and hurts me, and if he respected me, he wouldnt do that. He hasnt looked at it since. Its kind of nice. We are doing better than we were before all this happened. So, maybe I finally made my point?

Oh, there was something going on alright, and it wasnt the appetizer menu. Well, it probably was, just not in the normal sense.

I am so used to it, its not even funny. It makes me feel like crap right up until the minute I remember the only reason I am not getting hit on all the time is because I choose to not dress myself up. I do that for him. So, guess who is dragging the Pre- 4 kid clothes out today? ME. And guess who is gonna be doing alot more than just taking care of a male that has no consideration for her or anyone else? ME. I think I may re-do the relationship rules I have kept forever. I think its time I start getting even. Starting with showing up on a rig with food, drink, and looking pretty. I think he needs to remember what I do to those boys. Hows that for getting even? All those guys have mean wives, or so I hear all the time.

Well thank you for that. I think its time he started realizing that he is lucky to have me.

LOL. I think I would probably take you up on that if you were close. I remember how I used to have to beat the men off with a stick. That was only like 3 years ago. Then, I was pregnant for 2 consecutive years after that, so that doesnt count. HEHE.

Thanks, I areally appreciate it.

And I think you are right. I am going to do just that. And I think everytime some guy flirts, he is gonna hear about it over and over, lol. Just so that he doesnt forget that I dont have to stare, I get stared at. LOL.

I have been in a rut for a minute, and its this damn bi-polar thing. I am usually able to psych myself out of it, this time has been really hard, though. I think some good old fashioned "girl time" is in order, and I dont mean movie night. I mean go out with the girls, and make him sweat it, lol. Cuz his stupid friend isnt around to babysit me, lol.

LOL! Thats why we get along. Great minds think alike, lol.

I love to dance, I am just not very good at the club dancing. Im a cowgirl, so I can two step like a mad woman. I am also a ska girl, so I can skank (the dance lol) with the best of them. But, my fun comes when I have just me and one friend. We are just going to have couple drinks, back by 11! Then not answering when he starts calling at 11:30, 12:00, and then at 12:15, answer the phone with one of the good male buds you had in highschool saying loudly right next to you "Why are you waisting your time talking on the phone? We are ALL having a good time, you arent leaving yet!" LOL. OR having your lady friend call him and say "She really wants to go home, but she is afraid to leave with that sexy guy following her around all over. He wont quit asking for her number, even though she keeps telling him shes very taken. Maybe you should come get us? She isnt calling because there is no reception in the bathroom, and she wont come out." Heh Heh.

Paybacks are a mother fu!@#$!

Yup. Exactly. LOL.

See ya.

Oh, and I dont really hate men, just the fact that one part of their anatomy dictates the way they treat a species.

Since I am just all about bashing, and men never do the same thing to women, EVER, I am actually going to put links to the psychology today articles that basically confirmed everything I said about men. I will be doing this for a minute, so it'll be long.

This was on cried's column

http://cried.newsvine.com/_news/2012/01/30/10273292-the-7-worst-things-about-being-a-male

Which is the first article I read after it happened, and thus confirmed the night before.

This one was from his column, too.

http://cried.newsvine.com/_news/2012/02/04/10316861-are-you-in-a-real-relationship

Which really helps point out the differences in the way people view things in a relationship.

Here is the thing, I value a person who is honest, and has no problem being honest. For that, Ron, I thank you. However, when you take things that I put onto a column on an internet, and then use that to offend my motherhood, it takes literally every ounce of self control not to freak out, but I am not. Especially to attack a motherhood of someone who does NOTHING but take care of her family. Those are some pretty cheap shots, and from someone who is supposedly not like that, its quite shocking. If you feel bad for my kids, you have problems. Especially my son. He A) worships the ground his dad on this earth walks on, as well as the one who is not. B) He doesnt see his parents arguing or fighting because we dont do it around them. They have no clue of the things I say, which is probably, again, why I say them on here. As far as he knows, his father is the epitomy of awesomeness. And I would never change that. C) That boy, above all, will have everything he ever wants in his life because he was raised right, by a mother who makes sure they are doing right, even where I fail as a human. I make them learn from my mistakes. And he knows how to treat a woman. That is something he will know very well. For you, again, to take something that I am getting off of my chest, and take every word as though I mean specifically YOU, it makes me think that you really are trying to attack for whatever reason. Sorry. Thats what I see. Heres the thing. I dont hate men. I love them. I hate the stupid things they allow their dick to make them do, and if you think men arent like that, maybe you need to look up free affair sites in google, and see how many there are, how many are geared towards men, and how many men vs. women there are on there. I hate the fact that I was screwed around on in my first marriage CONSTANTLY, and didnt even know the whole gravity of it until I found out my first two children have a sibling they will never know or meet. I hate the fact that because of this, I am HIGHLY self concious, worry constantly about what he is doing when he is at work because a dead man damaged ME, and am constantly trying to talk myself down when I see him chatting it up with his ex, or any woman in general, for that matter. I hate the fact that I cant go to a decent dinner without becoming the laughing stock of "the hot girls" because my husband cant take his eyes off of them. I hate the fact that his friends try to save him, because THEY KNOW ITS WRONG. I hate the fact that I allowed myself to stop dressing up to impress him because I didnt want attention from other men, thus making myself look like hell, feel like hell, and have an even lower self esteem. But, hey. I guess I was stupid for trying to be a good wife. I guess all women hate men based on the fact that we can walk into a room and not pay attention to every piece of ass we see. Or we dont look on purpose in order to not make our men feel @!$%#ty. I guess that means that as a woman, I am a total failure in that I am not able to keep my husband attention on me when we go somewhere in public. God only knows what he does when I am not there, but I can imagine. Which is probably why I am so riled about this. OH. And he also knows about this article, too. He read it already, Im sure. As soon as he found out I wrote it. Which, is because I told him. If you want to not have a friend because they need to get things off of their chest in a way so that their family doesnt see them hurting, so be it. But dont think that is going to make a life happy. Friends are friends. Thats that. No ifs, ands, or buts. If my upset venting makes you not want to be my friend, then I dont think I want to be your friend.

DC, thanks for your infinite wisdom, patience, and friendship, as always. I appreciate you coming to my defense. Thats what friends do, and apparently you can actually see the real me. Thanks for that.

Kink, I love you my friend, and as always, thanks. Even if you have a really harsh way of putting things, lol.

Heres the thing. This column was not meant to be a place where people need to come to my defense on MY OWN COLUMN. It was meant to be my place to put my thoughts down, so I can get over them and move on. If I keep a notebook, my kids can see them. If I keep them here, they dont unless I want them to. I do this as my own way of dealing with things, AGAIN. If you dont like what I say, dont read it. I didnt ask you to. I gave you the option to do so. This column was a place for me to put my opinions down, and have them validated by people I dont have to see everyday. By people who arent going to attack my mother hood or lack of sexual prowess based on my rant about my very-inconsiderate-at-times husband. Especially when that rant is shared by many women all over the world. Especially when there are men that agree that they cant help but look, but could easily not stare. Apparently those men who admitted that are appalled at men that do this, but know that they do. They also know it is scientifically proven that men are JUST EXACTLY LIKE THAT. So, please, take this as it is. If you cant handle my thoughts, dont read them. You wont offend me. Sorry, lost alot of respect today.

Thank you for that, I will begin looking into them immediately.

I dont know about the therapy part yet. I would rather wait and see how our talk tonight goes. But thanks, I really appreciate the help!

Yeah, I kinda figured that when it became a "I feel bad for your kids, especially your son". No reason to, unless you want to bail them out of their dish duty this week, lol.

I really appreciate your input. You have all pointed out some things that I have missed, and thus, I have been educated. I like edumacation, lol. It makes that muscle at the top twitch. Maybe.

I really try not to be the psycho wife. I do. But, as I have pointed out above, I was slightly damaged goods when we got together, and he knows this, so he knows what it does to me, so he has no reason to get upset when I get irritated over his lack of consideration, right? I think he may get there, I wasnt the nicest woman in the world when he got home last night. I wasnt a bitch, either, I just didnt shove myself up his ass like I always do. I cleaned for like 4 hours. I didnt think my bathtub could get whiter, but I managed to impress myself, lol. I have decided that he needs to seek me out, I am not doing it anymore. He needs to take some actions for himself, not me. I made a huge deal about lack of respect last night before he walked in the door. He texted "What is the problem, why arent you talking to me?" I said "I have snaked a toilet 4 times today, we need either a new one or new guts, or a plumber, you choose, your doing it. I have washed, dryed, folded 4 loads of laundry for them to get drug out and dumped on the floor. I have been fighting the stupid broken appliances, and I have been battling with two kids today that think they can do whatever they want. I feel like I have no respect from anyone in the house lately, and its bugging me. The kids see you not care, and they think they can do the same."

"I love you and I respect you."

"I dont want to fight, and I love you, you dont have to answer, but, if you respect me, why do you do things that you know hurts me?"

No answer, but he was really walking around on some eggshells for the first time ever. Maybe its setting in, who knows?

Thanks again, the force is strong with you, as well, lol. Oh yeah, episode one is coming out in 3D! WOO HOO!

Very good point, and one that is very often forgotten. One thing is, both partners need to be respected by both, and need to have the option to talk to them. Sometimes we make it to hard without knowing.

Make up sex does rock. LMAO.

Well, I wish I had the amount of trust that you two have. I dont, though. Im not saying I dont trust him, I do to an extent. But, and though I dont like talking about the dead, being married to someone who was literally messing with everyone he could get his hands on the whole time we were married (and before), and the fact that I have told him this repeatedly, it makes it really hard not to be completely offended when he makes a huge scene out of it "What up, momma" when I was pregnant with our first daugher (JUST found out the day before), and it wasnt me he said it to. It was a not even hot chic. Its like he purposefully does it to hurt me. He may not talk to them all now, but it still hurts alot. The biggest problem I have is that trust is hard for me, I know that, but so does he. I wish I felt that kind of security, but he has in a way caused that. He used to tell me all the time that I was not his type. He has a tattoo of a model he used to date on his leg. He used to go to the gas station she worked at EVERYDAY, and wouldnt let me go in. He even picked a fight with me about getting water for my daughter to drink, because I bought it at a different gas station, before we got to that one. He went in to get snacks and gas, and was in there chit chatting for 20 minutes. Looked at me like I was the biggest c word in the world when I walked in to get him. Its things like that, but denial is king, and until you have undisputed evidence, he will fight you to the bitter end. His friend is the one that told me who she was. I figured out the tattoo on the fact that when I asked why he has a chic on him, and who it is, he said "its no one I just liked it." Then I saw the picture of her that he thought he got rid of from prison. Apparently she left him hanging in jail. And the fact that his other good friend that was a chic, he failed to let me in on the fact that she used to be his girl, too. Only she is the one that came between his sister and her husband. Because he was sleeping with her, and so was my beast. His sister had to tell me. Then he got pissed when I got pissed that he didnt tell me. "You didnt need to know." Um. Thats not something you omit unless you have something to hide. Especially after she calls you big daddy and you expect me to call you that. NEVER gonna happen. I have introduced him to every BF I have run into or talk to as that person being just that. And after I did, he had a major issue with me talking to that person, much like he was his exs. Guilty of something?

See, I know he isnt screwing around, but I dont know if its because of choice or inability. I like to think choice, but its hard based on the fact that I dont really know what he really thinks. We are not big fighters, but I did get pregnant almost right away in our relationship, so that is major factor. We used to fight horribly. All the time. And I know he is sneaky. Hes an ex con. Duh. I have found his hiding spots several times. Its the things like that. Here I go again, is it obvious we blew today? I kinda took him trying to appologize and made him know everything about it that was bugging me, and he didnt like that. So now we are having another issue. I wasnt trying to be a bitch, and he knows me, I was really nice, but he still got mad. I know I am to blame for that, but these are things we should be able to talk about. He gets mad that I see the numbers he calls, like its not right there on the bill. When I get charges I dont know about, I look at them to see what they are. Doesnt everyone? But, thats spying. So, there I am being evil. Its like I cant win. I want security, but I want a positive security, not a fake one. I want him, but I want him to want me for the same exact reasons, not the kids. I dont think its just that, but I do wonder about it since we had a fight where thats what he said. Whether he meant it or not is irrelevant. It stuck in my head like a bullet. That is a major issue that he has when his wicked ass temper comes out. He says super @!$%#ty things. My issue is my trust, but I dont hide that or deny it. Never have. And I am not trying to paint him as a bad guy, because he really isnt. When its good, its very good. But when its bad, its very bad. Two very wicked tempers make it so, and that is also a huge part of why we are together. We battle well.

Ok that was another really long vent. Sorry. Just been a lot of soul searching in the last 72 hours.

Ok, as of yet we have fought, made up, and maybe it worked out. I had a long old spiel, but it didnt work right so I gotta re-do it, lol. BRB.

Ok, so we argued a bit, and then we made up, with him appologizing and saying some much needed I love you so much's, lol. I appologized for being a jealous psycho, too. He did try to deny it again, until I pointed it out that his friend appologized for him. He shut up. Then he also tried to say that we werent ever going out again so we dont have a problem, to which I responded " Agreed! We will never go to dinner again, and we will live a life at home, forever, because I dont want to feel bad or see it everytime I go do something fun. Totally agreed!" LOL. That got a phone call, not just a text. A very appologetic and "I love you and only you and sorry for freaking out this morning" phone call. So, I feel better, and maybe it worked out for the better. Finally. This is probably the real only bad issue we have with each other.

Thanks everyone for listening, and Andrew, Baron, mightyj, FRs Sent!

Kim, thanks so much, sister! Love ya! *CHIC BEAR HUG*

Kink- Nah, Im over it. I thought I made that quite clear. But, beings as I hadnt quite worked him over, I gave it a go. lol.

DC, EWWW is right. YUK.

Kim, Thanks anyway, lol. Love ya!

And you too boys.

the jokes that I could run out. If wowed wouldn't kick my butt, you would be so "dyin' ovah dair".

Have I ever done that for a joke? HMMM? BTW. Did you guys know that septic systems and septic tanks really do go together? You cant have septic system on city sewage, lol. I did not know that a septic system was specific to tanks, I thought it was the whole system for your toilet and pipes. HMMM. I really do learn something new every day. Yesterday I found out I am a excellent snaker, but it doesnt kill the roots, lol.

OH! I didnt see this till now, DC! I hate the snaking, myself. I am really good at now though.

I agree. If you must look, at least dont "oogle". Dont make it insanely obvious that you are doing it. Just a glance, and back to it. Now I think I know why other women think they can try and pick up on him with me there. ARgh.

*big hugs back!*

Thanks.

Thank you, and I appreciate that. Now, I just need to leave this column RIGHT HERE so that he can see it. As far as it goes, I think he just feels bad that he was caught. Not that it embarassed me, made me feel crappy, and ugly. He just got caught. Still hasnt said "sorry".

Any ideas on how to make a man realize he is a dog when he does that?

You know, I did just that. And all he said was "k bb I love you". So, I guess if we see if this is a change in his way of doing his "viewing", or if he just doesnt care. In which case, he will regret that. Because when I stop caring how he feels, its gonna get ugly to him.

LOL. I dont know, I think it might have done something, actually. He appologized this morning, we fought about some more crap that has been bugging us, he hung up, I texted him a big ole long story like I do on here, he called me back and we made up. We will see. He even said "I am sorry I make you feel so bad, I love you and only you." Impressive, lol. Maybe he read the column or something. Maybe when I told him that a bunch of men felt the same way as me, it sunk in.

Ah. I do feel better, thanks :D

Me too, lol. Much lighter in my steppings.

Thats the way I feel about it. I am more of a person that is into the personality, not what they look like. Everyone looks, yeah, but you can still be respectful. And not make it obvious in front of your lover.

Wow. And people say I am vicious. LOL.

Very cool, and point taken. Now, is that gonna work on a man that says things like "would you take her home?" Damn him ever knowing about that "girl" thing I did in high school, and no, it wasnt ex-rated, lol.

LOL! Yes, that, my dear, is woman, lol! I love it, and thanks, I did need it!

Thats something my mother would do.

Yes, I have gotten a few. Thats good. I even went grocery shopping with a SMILE! I am not a happy shopper, but today I am getting happy again. YAY!

Thank you very much cried!

I love it!

LOL, Tell your wife, and I put it on the comment that was deleted by mistake, that I think she is the hottest chic I have ever heard of, and that is no small feat! The fact that you two are able to have an awesome relationship and be able to have intimacy with another person without the trust and jealousy issues is great. I am in awe of you two, and you should get together and write some things down about it, give others like me some guidance. That is really cool, and again, FR sent!

Thats ok. I do it all the time. Its fun.

Thank you! That was actually the best way I have heard it put yet. Your wife is a very lucky woman! And again, thank you. I like to think of myself as the way you put your wife, with the exception I dont get gussied everyday. Other than that, that is the way I see me, and so many other people have said about me. I have a major self esteem issue just because of little things through life, but I usually dont show it, I am the girl that hid it behind a mask of confidence. I found out early that people see it and pick you apart if you let them, so I stopped. Everyone thinks that I dont care what people think, but I do.

Anyway, he was in the dog house for a few days now. We are starting to be better, we shall see. So far, he has acted like he really understood it this time. Time will tell.

I just wanted to mention that, yes, I was highly irritated at his behavior, and that no, I dont hate all men. Not any of them, really. Just cant stand how they think it is ok to act like pre-teen dogs when they have a family and a partner who is very obviously devoted to them. And, exactly as you put it, he chose me to have his kids and his life with, and he says that he loves only me forever, then he needs to act like it, and put me up on that damn pedestal that he has been on since I made my commitment to him. That, I think, is how every loving and commited relationship should be.

After 4 kids, and being 29, I have not got the best looking belly around, but it aint bad. I dont have the boobs I had at 16, but you can still tell that they are there. Beyond that, besides two or three crows feet, I am still exactly the same as I was at 16, appearance wise. Actually, I weigh 2 lbs less.

He is 33, and is still sexy as hell to me, but his body is not that of a weight lifter. He is strong, dont get me wrong, but he has been battling a weight problem his whole life. Its hereditary. He is a big boy. 5'11, 230- 250 at times. But, I think of him the same way that you think of your wife, and I always have. Regardless of what another man looks like, they are not sexy to me like he is. When a man stares and trys to get my attention, I often find myself thinking "Dont even bother buddy, You dont have what he does." or some thing along those lines. I dont say that, of course, but I always think it. Nobody is or ever will be him.

He is the only person I have ever felt like I couldnt live without, my first husband included. I know that I made it without him, and it was hard, boy, but Im not sure I could without my beast.

I really wish he would see your comment, just to get an idea. Not from me, but someone else that isnt a roughneck. They are notorious dogs, lol.

I have to say that it doesnt have to be b.s., I do know of men who are so very in love with their wives, they dont look. I can do it, Im sure they can too.

No you cant.

I have to say that I notice a decent looking man, but they never really add up to anything anymore, lol.

LOL. Ya, I know, lol.

No, I really get what you were saying, I do, but I can also see someone not looking because they are so distracted with who they are with. Puppy love, if you will.

I saw her, she is hot! But, you do see what I mean then, right? I feel that way about the beast, even if he doesnt.

Cheif- Wow. You are awesome. Ill say it again- Lucky lady.

Well, very cool, and thanks for being gentleman.

MMMK. So, if he messes up again, I am going to request that you two give him a phone call, and Andew, send him a pic of your wife and you, and tell him what an idiot he is for being an ass, k? LOL.

I surely hope he never makes that mistake again, though. He may not live through the next one...

CRAP. Did I say that out loud?

Why thank you, lol.

AWWW! Thats too sweet! Your wife taught you well, lmao!

LOL. I am a hitter too. I wasnt until I met him, but he has since changed me into a hitting machine. He knows its coming, though. He is usually covering his head as he is mouthing off. What does that tell you?

Is that why he smiles. I always figured him for the pain lover.

lmao.

Thanks for stopping!

Well, we are half your size, thats why we hit you. It takes alot of force to get through to the brain at times :P

I think he likes it, personally. He always has a big smile on his face, lol.

LOL, Oh, I am sure of that, lol.

FR sent, BTW!

You are welcome, and ditto!